Choosing a Wife LOCK PLZ
#44
Originally Posted by kanundrum
Listen dude, you dont know $hit about $hit so shut ur got dam mouth, your trying to treat ladies like there meat and demanding sex because u wont get it in the future. What kinda Bull$hit is that, sex aint something that should be demanded on a daily basis, yea its basic human need but its love which clearly u dont know wtf that is. And experience isnt based on # of years, its based in the trials and tribulations you have gone thru. Now lock this thread.
Believe me, I didn't think nor talk like this til a few years ago. When I was 16, i got an internship at an isp, and only worked with 30+ year old guys. They all talked to me some male chauvensitic crap, kinda like what i wrote. I thought these guys were nuts, and just had poor relationships with women. Sure some did have some, but then I was in a relationship(a real one, where we lived together alone, pooled money, supported each other, etc..) for now 8 years.
I don't ever advocate treating women like meat. What I do believe is guys like to have sex, and they need to be proactive in their relationship to keep sex with their woman from becoming a game, or something only people in new relationships do. For me, sex is part of a relationship. an everyday part, like hugs, support, chores, etc...
This is meant for wife material where you're deeply in love with the person. If you think someone with this attitude couldn't love correctly, what about all the people that are "in love" with people, that still flirt with others to feel good about themselves, that hit each other, that play games about sex, that make the other person feel guilty, that lie aobut things? EVERY LOVING MARRIAGE HAS THESE. it sucks, we all try NOT to do them, but it happens.
for me, and i tell this to all guys, live with the woman 2-2.5 years before you decide to get married. tell her you love her, and yuo want to spend the rest of your life together, but the first 6mon-1year of living withsome isn't squat to see how someone will live the rest of their life.
#45
if you want to play the experience and how long have you lived together card... that is me.... i have been in several serious relationships, and lived with two women... those are my credentials...
I agree with tC4italy and Kanundrum....
what you say is very specific(maybe just to you and your exprience and ppl you know) and cant be generalized to all men and women...
all the things you are saying can be prevented, by doing certain things.... not true.... somethings are inevitable... and no matter how much you try to angle things in your favor or stack your deck its not going to prevent it, and basing a relationship or looking for one based on how much someone wants sex or cleans is assinine.
cheating has nothing to do with lack of sex for a man... regardless of what media and magazines may say... masturbating does... thats a different story... but most women dont want to hear about that b/c it makes them feel inadequate...
and uhhh... sorry... but you just get cold fish... there are plenty of women that want sex just as much and often more than men.... when YOUR wrist gets tired beating off to paris hilton... and you decide you want to cheat ill gladly find one for you... but i somehow doubt you could handle it...
I agree with tC4italy and Kanundrum....
what you say is very specific(maybe just to you and your exprience and ppl you know) and cant be generalized to all men and women...
all the things you are saying can be prevented, by doing certain things.... not true.... somethings are inevitable... and no matter how much you try to angle things in your favor or stack your deck its not going to prevent it, and basing a relationship or looking for one based on how much someone wants sex or cleans is assinine.
cheating has nothing to do with lack of sex for a man... regardless of what media and magazines may say... masturbating does... thats a different story... but most women dont want to hear about that b/c it makes them feel inadequate...
and uhhh... sorry... but you just get cold fish... there are plenty of women that want sex just as much and often more than men.... when YOUR wrist gets tired beating off to paris hilton... and you decide you want to cheat ill gladly find one for you... but i somehow doubt you could handle it...
#51
Originally Posted by etli
Dude, go with the lady who invested the 5 grand and earned a return. I'm assuming you can buy her a good boob job for 5 grand. And then you and her can roll any leftover money into alzheimer's research.
A good boob job nowadays is like $10k.
Not that I need one......
#53
Originally Posted by schwettynuts
You guys want some schwetty nuts? salted for your pleasure. $5 comes in schwetty nut sack
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