B1uEsC1uEs

how do you get someone off your mind?

please dont ask.

socalscion

surround you self with friends or family.
fine a new hobby.
get someone else on your mind


good luck, we've all been there

oldmanatee

The best way is to not try.....you will never forget them, but after a while, you wont want to forget them.

Hang in there, bro!

ricktoyota73

Watch a movie that they wouldn't want to see or go places or do things that they didn't enjoy doing and you do.
SoCal's ideas are great, too.
I drink, personally...

Nate2085

do stuff......hobbies...few years back when i got dumped, the one thing that helped me was doing something I enjoyed doing....

Skeorx13

Stay busy. Hobbies, go out with friends. Find new person to get stuck in your mind. I find distracting myself with new girlies totally gets rid of thinking about old ones.

THansenite

That reminds me of something that happened to me a few years back.

I used to work for the city parks and rec department of the small town where I grew up. One day, my boss asked me to go trim trees at a large park in the town. Well, for some reason, I got thinking about a girl that broke my heart and I got really mad while trimming the trees. I didn't even realize it, but by the time I was done, the young trees were pretty much just sticks.

When I wanted to get someone/something off my mind, I would go ride my motorcycle. Riding forces you to forget everything else. I focus so much on controlling the bike and it takes my attention off what I was thinking about and makes me think about the road. Worked really well for me.

reckless

Yeah, for me, I worked out a lot, focused more on school and hung out with my friends a lot more. I also got into cars and played video games more. Focusing on myself and what I wanted in life made me a much better person in the long run.

After a while, your anguish just disappears. And when you realize that, it's a wonderful feeling.

THansenite

And it is an even better feeling after you have worked out and made yourself a better person, then the person that caused everything sees you and is jealous. Then you can act like you have completely moved on and just brush them off. That is the best part.

tekisui

I love my toys/gagets. When I'm depressed or whatever, I buy myself something new, even if it's just a new Gamecube game or something, whatever takes my mind off of things. It's usually proportionate to how crappy I feel. When I broke up with my gf a week before our 3 year anniversary (when I was going to propose) back in October, I bought myself my tC.

tC4italy

glad to know that also boyz go through similar times as we do

i believe that it's just a pure matter of time, yes hobbies and a new person will help but nothing will heal better than time

reckless

tc4italy is on the money. In the end, all you're doing with yourself is passing time. But it's better to be passing time, bettering yourself than passing time doing nothing, making you more prone to thinking about it.

Brent_23M

yea so ill be honest, nothin really helps for more than short term, only time will heal all wounds, even then you still will remember and think about her, all ya can do is stay positive... move forward, dont fall into a slump

been there, done that, good luck bro

mattxb

Drink Heavily.....

All joking aside, hope everything works out.

Nate2085

please don't kill your self....girls aren't worth it.

blitz_xb

i work and just try to stay busy

good luck you'll need it i know ive been their

tC4italy

umm..nothing/no one is worth that

chrischoi

iTrader: (2)

yeah man, getting someone off my mind cost alot of money... for me.. i'm just pouring everything i have into the car.. maybe not the best idea... but it's working and friends... hang out with them... do stupid stuff... not stupid.. i'm gonna kill myself or race around stuff... but like guy stuff... go make fu nof someone or something...

SO-CAL_TC

Just go wash the car, get a bunch of close friends together, get all dressed up and go to the club.

tekisui

That's what I did.. Bought my tC and put all my time, energy, and money into her instead of the girl... When I compare one vs the other, I prefer my tC, thank you very much.