midgethearsexb

She almost saw it the other day! I was online at my sis's house and she came up behind me. Now she thinks I was looking at **** or talking to another girl on myspace or something. Ha ha! Oh well!

GreenLantern

I've seen your handle so many times and I always think it says "Midge the **** xb" or "midget hear sex"...LOL...took me a few times to see the "hearse" thing...much funnier

citizen01

Two inputs.
1) Her parents have a yatch and you haven't sealed the deal yet? What the F is wrong with you!? Don't like money or something?
2) There will come a time when you screw up royally and will need a hail mary. A "works every time" ploy is to take her to where you proposed and say your sorry and that this was the best moment of your life, you love her, puke , etc. So ask as close to where you live as possible. It is much harder to get to hawaii than it is SF. I recomend peoposing when you get back.

BYeRhONe

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

tC4italy

^^ great work song

BigMURR

What kind of field are you in??...and ummm could I get a peice.

dibbz

i would say on the beach in hawaii after a really nice dinner. and if you can when you get there (or even now ).have the hotlel make up a table on the beach with some champange mabey some chocolate covered strawberrys or somthing that is grown in hawaii let her have a few glasses of bubbly while you feed her some sweet fruit then maybe a walk on the beach chatting about how nice it is to have met her and things like that, maybe walk out into the surf a little and get on one knee and propose to her (not too far out though)

schwettynuts

I played scrabble with her and put the ring in the bag with the letters.

tCizzler

I learned in law class that it is a VERY bad idea to propose on a holiday or a birthday, because then the ring becomes a gift, and if anything goes wrong down the line. (GOD FORBID!!) Then you wouldn't get the ring back. But to some people it doesn't matter either way, just throwing that out there.

Good luck to you!

ChimChim

i agree no holidays or b-days. I almost look at it as an easy way out. The day you propose should be its own special day.

purpled_out_tC

^^Word!!!! Bday and holidays are so cliche. I like dibbz and schwetty, but I won't talk about how great it is to be with her -- if you want it to be a surprise. That's how the movies do it, so you can here it coming. Just my opinion though, and I'm curious as to how this is going to go down.

tC4italy

very witty

teamben158

I'd say do it on the yacht. Wake her up early one morning as the sun is rising and tell her you want to watch the sunrise. Start up a casual conversation about how much you enjoy being with her, get down on one knee and BAM, pop the question. I'd say do it the morning of the last day on the yacht, so Hawaii can be more of a celebration.

For what it's worth, even though you sound like you already have don't care what everyone else said, don't listen to them about you being too young. I'm 23 and getting married in October. And it sounds like your girl's parents are loaded because getting married is a boat load more expensive than I orginally expected. I could have paid cash for me tC with how much this is costing me, even with having help from both sides of the family and having a small wedding.

dibbz

yea and for what its woth i got married when i was 22!! damn that was 19 and a 1/2 years ago!! go for it dude!! you only live once.

midgethearsexb

Update!

I did it! On June 1st, which happens to be my girl's b-day, I proposed. I did it at Scott's Restaurant on one of the piers in Oakland. My girl wants to be a mortician (don't comment please) and so I thought it was only appropriate to put the ring on a bloody, rubber finger and put that in a coffin. I then wrapped it up and gave it to her as a b-day present. It was perfect! Here's the pics. Thanks everyone for your input and sorry it took so long to get the update on here.

jwaj2002

wow thats cool dude, obviously she said yes?

suvving

hey congrats man! that's kind of a freaky way to propose, but cool since that's what she's interested in.

and also - wow, you've got a hot fiance.

xdorkx

Hot fiance! :-) Congrats man, i'm sure you're glad now that it's over, hahaha, and great idea on the ring on the fake finger, but mortician? ewwww, hahaha

tC4italy

congrats!!!!

Can you tell me who her dentist is? :D

purpled_out_tC

That's awesome. That was a great way to do it too. You totally made it about her too, with the finger and coffin thing too. She's very pretty (but I'm sure you know that). LOL.

Side note -- immature guys from this forum will comment on her, so hope your ready.

Oh and I love the ring, is that garnet--the stone, the red one??