djct_watt

Dude, I think you have absolutely no idea what a slippery slope is. You might want to look it up. You don't call someone a slippery slope; it's a type of scenario. You know what, I'm not even going to bother explaining it to you. Not worth the time. . . I really hope you were just making a sarcastic joke.

S1lent

I know the situation. I know why you referred it to a slippery slope. Can easily be effed up. But I have no sympathy for a guy who doesn't have the ***** to drop a chick if she's mentally retarded because she can't stand the sight of her boyfriend looking at a PICTURE OF ANOTHER WOMAN!

For christ sakes! That's just rediculous. Hump it and dump it.

All jokery aside... If you want serious advice and want to keep your girl... Don't listen to me. =D

draxcaliber

this thread isn't about whether or not i should dump her. i just decided that i should see what other people think and see if i'm being the unreasonable one.

dziuniek

wow, I see some of you have it bad. Tell her your ex used to watch **** with you Why can't she? ;p;p;p

S1lent

You in no way are being unreasonable... She needs a good slap across the face with like... A 9'er... If you know what I mean. Rofl.

draxcaliber

why stop there? how about my ex and i would have naked movie night with her sorority sisters!

S1lent

Now your using your noggin!

djct_watt

I apologize. . . I run into too many goobers on SL. . . and I see what you meant now. And you have a point too.

It's the insecurity (on his part) to drop her (common relationship syndrome) because he think's that he can't find better. For some people, sadly, it's true and for most people it is not.

S1lent

Lol, goobers.
***** Wonka ain't crackin' with his sweets anymore.
Lazy bastard.

As I leave you with that last drunk comment... I bid thee fairwell and goodnight. >_>

OKIHost

Don't drop her too fast, like I said my wife does not allow me to look at any of that crap either and she could give a chit less if ex-chicks watched **** with me or not.

It was probably one of the smartest moves I have made in our eight year relationship, this is mostly a guy forum so you are going to get a lot of 'dump that bish' type reponses but no one really knows your situation enough to give you an answer.

S1lent

I beg to differ... I could write an effing book on this subject.

djct_watt

S1lent, are you a PUA by any chance? Sounds like you're versed in the Game. . . If so, then you may be beyond everyone else. It's good for those who are badarsed enough to be able to execute, but most people are too weak.

dziuniek

hey I meant no harm. Point is, she's stressing you too much. Not to say that can't be fixed, unless you don't feel like spending time doing that (like S1lent + I). There's plenty of chicks out there and in no way you have to put up with that. Just to give us an idea. On scale 1-10 what is she? Is she worth saving?

All in all, it's not like it's a make-or-break thing anyways, if you can put up with that then it's all cool. When she tells you what to wear when you go out at age of 21... that's when you have an issue

S1lent

My current state of mind has absolutly no clue what you just said... >_>

HeathenBrewing

Im not going to go back to look who said it, but I must agree that her insecurity is a bad sign. Things WILL get more difficult in the future.

But it is up to you to decide how much you want to put up with.

DragonR

insecurity is a hard thing to live with... if a girl you are dating is truely not... uhh...if shes uhh... overwei.... uhhh... if she can be "improved" by diet, exercise or makeup and new wordrobe... then encouraging her to take those steps will help her self esteem... along with kind loving words and abstaining from your girlie mags for a while; on the other hand... if she is already hot... and still insecure... good luck.


btw... before anyone jumps on my back... this is based on both personal experience, things ive learned studying to be a shrink and things that i have just noticed in day to day life of people around me.

2tone_xB

hope you get your stuff situated.

i put a my favorite model/friend
on my hood, wonder how your gf would react to that?

and do you live in Orlando
or were you visiting since you went to the dealership show here?
live like 5mins away from there. crazy.

thegermangemini

I will say that someone who is insecure and jealous of PAPER will turn out worse as the reigns tighten...do keep that in mind. I have many a friend who is just as nuts. If it starts on paper, it will be the girl at the checkout line within a few years...I am a woman, I know.

Personally, I read my bf's Maxims, watch his ****, whatever, so I know where his little ideas and suggestions are coming from. Sometimes, guys, just FYI the advice in there is so frikkin retarded ...alas, I don't care, he is smart enough to know for the most part the difference between good knowledge and just good reading. Same goes for ****.

But I will tell you this. He is equally non-jealous when it comes to my readings, movies, oggling of Diesel and Depp. We match that way. Jealousy is one instance where opposites rarely attract. If you can't sit down and talk this out without a compromise, your relationship truly may get more difficult down the road. As long as its not an obsession, I think she is a bit overboard.

Jan06xB

As you get older these problems diminish and so do the selection of available women so enjoy it while you are young. Things will change a lot by the time you reach your 20's LOL and 30's and 40's and 50's ROFL

DragonR

i have a driver who is in his late 80's.... has 2 gf's who dont know about eachother... has sex on a daily basis and does not use viagra... looks like after a lul in your 50's... things pick up in your golden years.