Is this rape?
02-21-2007, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted by blackonblacktc
...i mean i have turned down offers, but thats beacuse i have a strict policy of no sex before marriage..
02-21-2007, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by bcnu_702
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
02-21-2007, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Frosty355
Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by bcnu_702
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
C'est la vie.
02-21-2007, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by bcnu_702
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
02-21-2007, 09:41 PM
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bcnu_702 wrote:
Quote:
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Its not that easy because people make it not so easy for themselves. Rape is not any worse of a crime then murder, beating a child, et cetera. I guess the psychy of women isn't as strong as I would have thought. If I got raped, I would be the first in line to nail that scumbag.
Yr in no position to say that. Yr a man. You do not know how women feel when they go through such a thing.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
Quote:
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Its not that easy because people make it not so easy for themselves. Rape is not any worse of a crime then murder, beating a child, et cetera. I guess the psychy of women isn't as strong as I would have thought. If I got raped, I would be the first in line to nail that scumbag.
Yr in no position to say that. Yr a man. You do not know how women feel when they go through such a thing.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
02-21-2007, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by bcnu_702
bcnu_702 wrote:
Quote:
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Its not that easy because people make it not so easy for themselves. Rape is not any worse of a crime then murder, beating a child, et cetera. I guess the psychy of women isn't as strong as I would have thought. If I got raped, I would be the first in line to nail that scumbag.
Yr in no position to say that. Yr a man. You do not know how women feel when they go through such a thing.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
Quote:
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Its not that easy because people make it not so easy for themselves. Rape is not any worse of a crime then murder, beating a child, et cetera. I guess the psychy of women isn't as strong as I would have thought. If I got raped, I would be the first in line to nail that scumbag.
Yr in no position to say that. Yr a man. You do not know how women feel when they go through such a thing.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
So more women can relate than men.
02-21-2007, 09:49 PM
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I'm not ignorant. I know men can be raped too. It's not as common.
So more women can relate than men.
So more women can relate than men.
02-21-2007, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by seattledave
the bible says all sin is equal, so if you're a christian, shouldn't you believe rape is as equal to stealing a candybar?
You made this thread. And yr throwing something completly out of the blue in it?
02-21-2007, 10:09 PM
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Sorry if this has been mentioned already as I only did a quick looksee at everyones replies.
First - There's not enough info to decide if it's rape or not.
Second - NO means NO. I don't care if she put a damn condom on him. If at any point she changed her mind and said no, and he proceeded, then it was rape.
Third - I don't think every case of rape HAS to come with a major emotional upset.
Fourth - I don't think every case of rape HAS to result in physical injury.
Not that I think it's wise or okay to go bragging to your co-workers that you were raped, doing so doesn't disqualify a person.
First - There's not enough info to decide if it's rape or not.
Second - NO means NO. I don't care if she put a damn condom on him. If at any point she changed her mind and said no, and he proceeded, then it was rape.
Third - I don't think every case of rape HAS to come with a major emotional upset.
Fourth - I don't think every case of rape HAS to result in physical injury.
Not that I think it's wise or okay to go bragging to your co-workers that you were raped, doing so doesn't disqualify a person.
02-21-2007, 10:09 PM
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you want to hear terrible, when i was in the disney college program, there was this disgusting overweight (<putting it politely) chic who drove a blue xb. she disgusted me cause she was always flirting with me and anyother guy she met. anyway, i stayed the hell away from her because she would get guys alone and "reverse rape them." either do it with her, or she would go to appartment security and say that they tried to rape her, which was more than enough to get somebody kicked out of the disney college program.
02-21-2007, 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by seattledave
the bible says all sin is equal, so if you're a christian, shouldn't you believe rape is as equal to stealing a candybar?
You made this thread. And yr throwing something completly out of the blue in it?
Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by bcnu_702
bcnu_702 wrote:
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
Real victims should take immediate action (i.e. call the cops, report it, take a rape test kit, et cetera).
It's not that easy.
But yes it's no less than murdering or child molesting, but it's a tough situation none the less.
02-21-2007, 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Jenna
Third - I don't think every case of rape HAS to come with a major emotional upset.
Fourth - I don't think every case of rape HAS to result in physical injury.
Not that I think it's wise or okay to go bragging to your co-workers that you were raped, doing so doesn't disqualify a person.
Fourth - I don't think every case of rape HAS to result in physical injury.
Not that I think it's wise or okay to go bragging to your co-workers that you were raped, doing so doesn't disqualify a person.
HOEVER, some women do not feel that they are being raped if they have sex with their bf, even if they say no or to stop.