Tips on sucking up to my Girlfriends Friend's..
05-29-2007, 01:16 AM
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Tips on sucking up to my Girlfriends Friend's..
During the past month I've been known to be an '_______' to my girlfriend, i didnt realize it, but any way everything is all good and stuff; and I just want it so that I am the cool guy that her friends used to refer to me as.
Or should I just not give a ____ and go on with life? lol.. I just dont want them talkin ____ about me and stuff.
Or should I just not give a ____ and go on with life? lol.. I just dont want them talkin ____ about me and stuff.
05-29-2007, 01:58 AM
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Whoa buddy why is his girl a B all of a sudden?? Guys like ^^you^^ get on my f'n nerves he's the one that messed up.
Anyway a day at the spa is cool. But honestly if you were a "butthole" to her then I won't forgive you if I was her friend. But I hold grudges, and not all girls do. If your girl is happy with you then get over her friends not liking you, you may grow on them again. Have you apologizied to them for treating her like crap?? Depending on what you did to her you owe them that, as they were the shoulders that she cried and leaned on while you were acting the way you were. That could be it right there.
Anyway a day at the spa is cool. But honestly if you were a "butthole" to her then I won't forgive you if I was her friend. But I hold grudges, and not all girls do. If your girl is happy with you then get over her friends not liking you, you may grow on them again. Have you apologizied to them for treating her like crap?? Depending on what you did to her you owe them that, as they were the shoulders that she cried and leaned on while you were acting the way you were. That could be it right there.
05-29-2007, 02:19 AM
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Originally Posted by xIxAMxHOLLYWOODx
Who cares what they think? And if you do, dump that b*tch! Get a new gf
really all you have to is be nice! converate with them for a while, bout nothing important. I find myself in the same boat as you alot of the time, but it usally seems to go away after the next couple times you see them when you are in your "nice mode" (lol)
around here, i have the reputation of being the nicest guy around, and then there are other girls that are always ridin my shiz because they think i am a mondo-jerk!
you win some, you lose some!
05-29-2007, 05:12 AM
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Yea 'purple' that is exactly what is goin on, I did do the apologize and stuff, and she aint leavin me for nothing ;). And yes I plan on growin on her friends again. I always beleived that your partners friends play a role in the relationship; maybe its just me.
Basicly I just have to watch what comes out my mouth. I blame it on the 8 years of Howard Stern and Rap music.. riiiight
Basicly I just have to watch what comes out my mouth. I blame it on the 8 years of Howard Stern and Rap music.. riiiight
05-29-2007, 10:23 PM
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Well I'm glad your recognized it. But don't suck up cause they may see right through it. Just be you, cause you can't fake honesty, feel me. I don't know if you were going through something at the time (i.e. death/someone sick in the fam or someone close to you, stressing from school/work or just plain depression) , but if so I hope you figured it out so you don't repeat it. It' sounds like she's a great girl to you, and it would suck to lose her. True there are plently of fish in the sea, but not all taste so fresh or suit your tastebuds. For you to make the apology was big though.
I agree; for the most part if the friends, and sometimes the fam don't like you then you won't make it. Especially if she's mad close to them. I know personally that if I had a guy and he didn't get along with my friends and fam, I'd question our relationship. Sometimes those looking from the outside have the best view. But don't get me wrong it's up to the peoson to figure out if jealously or control is the reason for the dislike for the mate.
Again tho Hollywood, I want to ask, why is she a "b****"??
I agree; for the most part if the friends, and sometimes the fam don't like you then you won't make it. Especially if she's mad close to them. I know personally that if I had a guy and he didn't get along with my friends and fam, I'd question our relationship. Sometimes those looking from the outside have the best view. But don't get me wrong it's up to the peoson to figure out if jealously or control is the reason for the dislike for the mate.
Again tho Hollywood, I want to ask, why is she a "b****"??
05-30-2007, 12:36 AM
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Got damn, thats inspiring.
You are right, i was a lil in deep with school, and work absolutely sucked that week.
Her family loves me and says she is lucky to have me; and All her friends get along great with me now, we hung out with quite a few of em this weekend. But two of her close friends I need to watch out for, but Ima just be me, like i been doing; there just jealous I am around my girl more than they are, i know it
I think Hollywood was just trying to act hard, pay no mind.
You are right, i was a lil in deep with school, and work absolutely sucked that week.
Her family loves me and says she is lucky to have me; and All her friends get along great with me now, we hung out with quite a few of em this weekend. But two of her close friends I need to watch out for, but Ima just be me, like i been doing; there just jealous I am around my girl more than they are, i know it
I think Hollywood was just trying to act hard, pay no mind.
05-30-2007, 01:52 PM
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I try no to but it's scary casue that's where alot of this country is going.
Glad you guys got it together. The other chics will come around too, they're probably single right. and somtimes us single chics get too attached to our closest homegirls. I'm guessing one of two things happened when you two were having issues: 1.your girl was leaning on them it and they were hoping you two would break up, but then you didn't. or 2. they just are being overprtective and don't want to see her hurt like that again. I hhope it's number 2, cause if it's 1, then they may try to brak ya'll up or stop being her friends. But if it's 2 then they'll see that you changed and it was just a brief period. G/l though.
Glad you guys got it together. The other chics will come around too, they're probably single right. and somtimes us single chics get too attached to our closest homegirls. I'm guessing one of two things happened when you two were having issues: 1.your girl was leaning on them it and they were hoping you two would break up, but then you didn't. or 2. they just are being overprtective and don't want to see her hurt like that again. I hhope it's number 2, cause if it's 1, then they may try to brak ya'll up or stop being her friends. But if it's 2 then they'll see that you changed and it was just a brief period. G/l though.
