mitchelltc1

Got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship about 5 months ago... and I'm ready to move on. Consider myself a pretty good looking guy, and have pretty good confidence talking to girls or asking them out... Anyhow, so 4 times in a row I meet a girl, and get their number. In some cases, they told me to take it without even asking. Which btw is usually followed by them telling me something on the lines of "make sure you call me, I definitely want to hang out". After that, I usually do the normal thing, wait til a couple days before the weekend and give a call. At this point, I never get an answer. So I'll leave a quick message or text, something like "just seeing how your week's been going. Give me a call back, there's a couple fun things going on this weekend."

Ehh, anyhow, I'm frustrated. Occasionally I get a call or message later like "sorry I've been busy" or whatever, but ntohing ever seems to come out of these encounters. I've met friends of friends, random girls at bars, girls from work situations, girls I used to know... I just don't get it. So my question is, where am I going wrong? I guess I'm just off of my game from being tied-down so long. I don't think I'm coming off as being desperate or even needy. Maybe the girls are just not confident enough to call back or waiting for another call? But that I don't like to do... Hopefully it is just bad luck.

draxcaliber

did you forget to tell them that you have a scion tc? you gotta tell them that to make a sure thing, worked for me with my current girlfriend.

mitchelltc1

nice one drax :-) maybe you're onto something... no, at least 2 of the girls even rode in it. oh yeah, age hasn't been a thing either... i've talked to girls 21 - 28 all the same. And no, i'm not a player either. damn

Big_Bird

try being the fat guy, yeah man ***** are a big turn off to many women.

HR_Guy

Maybe you just need to not try so hard? You might just stumble on the perfect girl without even knowing it. I met my fiance from a group project we got assigned to in one of our classes 5 years ago. I was never really good at talking to girls. If I had to go back to dating, it would be bad, humilating scene.

And yeah, change that scion emblem to a lexus and the girls will be all over you. Better yet, put a porsche shield instead

tC4italy

if the girls are so stupid to not figure that out
I'd seriously hope mitchell WOULDN'T date them
maybe u SHOULD do that as a test

captainlaziness

Have you tried that Axe bodyspray? If the commercials are any indication, then a few sprays of that stuff and you be drowning in.....umm....tang.

tC4italy

those commercial are soooooooooooooooooo stupid

captainlaziness

So that stuff doesn't really work?

ChelsDS

Uh it might you who's chasing them away. Are you happy with yourself at the moment? I can usually tell when guys aren't comfortable with themselves, and I can tell when they're acting. Make yourself happy first then worry about females. It works for my friends when they broke up or are just feeling down that no one is calling them back.

ps - tag/axe smell awful!

tC4italy

for stupid chicks and empty men maybe

I do agree that smell is a big turn on but axe doesn't do it for me

captainlaziness

mitchelltc1

Maybe that's best adive so far... thank you... to the others, I had some good laughs which is much appreciated too :-)

captainlaziness

I see. My old lady likes freshly squozed bull pheremones anyway. I'll stick to that.

ChelsDS

I like the stuff called Curve. That makes me weak in my knees

tC4italy

what!?

mitchell - seriously, just take things slowly =) as HRguy said if it's not forced (as in looking for something) it will come more easy and u will appreciate it more

niran916

That's funny!!!

mitchelltc1

I wear Pi by Givenchy... lots of compliments

tC4italy

GAH the green bottle eh!?!?


omg I love it
well now i hate it cos it reminds me of my ex bf
otherwise i'd spray it everywhere

niran916

Well...Coming from an ex pimp and PIT (pimpin in training) teacher. I'd say you are doing things right. Now the thing is when you are looking for a chick it won't happen. Basically take it slow and the best way to meet a girl is to become a friend first. That's if you want something serious of course. One other thing that I have always told buddys is if you have a friend that's a girl, she has got to have some good looking friends that you can meet.
Hope this helps and girls do like tC's. lol