what's my problem with girls lately... frustrated
09-29-2007, 05:55 AM
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Just do stuff where girls are regularly and enjoy doing it. If you're having a good time, people will notice that. So play pool, take up drinking, spend more time on the treadmill and less on the weights. The whole concept of 4 years with one person just boggles the mind though... and then wanting to start over? Good luck.
09-29-2007, 11:09 PM
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What ChelsDS said, that's the best advice you'll get on meeting a girl. At least I think so. Confidence is always the key. Yeah and don't try too hard, the girl will come to you (most of the time). And I like to add in at the last moment... "Oh yeah... I have a scion tC." Worked before.... and guess what happened after that ;).
09-29-2007, 11:42 PM
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No, no, no. You see, when you talk about being hung like a light switch (or tic tac) they will will be (pleasantly?) surprised that you're packin' a lil' smokey down there. 
09-30-2007, 05:36 AM
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I too have this problem. I never ask for numbers though the girls always ask for numbers and one time since I work at auto zone this girl even asked to come in the next day to get something checked and I said "sorry I don't work tomorrow" she says well maybe I can come over. I say um, yeah sure. Then she slowly goes into asking my phone number, address to come over in the morning then going out to see a movie after words and then blah blah blah. After an hr of flirting back and forward I get no call. I dont know whats with girls. Even though I just came out of a long long relationship I can move on fast because it was one of those relationships where nothing got accomplished. I think I should get another SL name because this is a sponsored one lol.
10-01-2007, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Delta
I too have this problem. I never ask for numbers though the girls always ask for numbers and one time since I work at auto zone this girl even asked to come in the next day to get something checked and I said "sorry I don't work tomorrow" she says well maybe I can come over. I say um, yeah sure. Then she slowly goes into asking my phone number, address to come over in the morning then going out to see a movie after words and then blah blah blah. After an hr of flirting back and forward I get no call. I dont know whats with girls. Even though I just came out of a long long relationship I can move on fast because it was one of those relationships where nothing got accomplished. I think I should get another SL name because this is a sponsored one lol.
Hope this helps, there will be a next time.
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10-01-2007, 04:19 PM
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rofl @ Delta. That threw me off seeing you in here.
In my travels, I've learned that if you start being someone that you aren't, then you'll find females that are attracted to that person... and then when you start being yourself again, things don't work out.
I've also learned that you can't just wait for a girl to fall into your lap, figuratively or literally. You have to know you've got a good opportunity, and then seize it.
Me? I only seem to meet women that like the smell of formaldehyde.
In my travels, I've learned that if you start being someone that you aren't, then you'll find females that are attracted to that person... and then when you start being yourself again, things don't work out.
I've also learned that you can't just wait for a girl to fall into your lap, figuratively or literally. You have to know you've got a good opportunity, and then seize it.
Me? I only seem to meet women that like the smell of formaldehyde.
10-01-2007, 05:05 PM
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I know how you feel guys me and my fiance/ex fiance/girlfriend/ex girlfriend of 4 1/2 years are well, I don't know what we are anymore. I mean the reason we're in the standstill is the dumb shiot I did when I was a stupid stupid stupid high schooler and now it's coming to bite my **** again. If we break up completely now, I've been out of the game for soo long it's really going to take some time get into the date scene again. Girls have it so freaky easy getting dates and such.
10-01-2007, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by BigMURR
Girls have it so freaky easy getting dates and such.
same can go for guys...if they have no standards they can get lots of dates too
but who wants that? (well I don't at least...why waste time)
10-01-2007, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by BigMURR
Girls have it so freaky easy getting dates and such.
same can go for guys...if they have no standards they can get lots of dates too
but who wants that? (well I don't at least...why waste time)
I suppose
10-01-2007, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted by CDogbert
Yeah, I used to not have standards. I have a universal agreement among my friends that we don't talk about "the dark summer" anymore.
*shudder* I can only imagine. I hope you were high or drunk most of the time. Unfortunately, I'm guessing your friends have pictures.