scionofPCFL

Ahh, the "high road". I have heard of such a thing, but being a flat lander from sea level all my life, I can only take so much of that thin air

purpled_out_tC

scionofPCFL

relax, I'm just goofin.

tC4italy

Yeah he's def a "goof-ball"

scionofPCFL

^^ she knows, I just like to play ;-)

TongMan

Oh okay! Nah I wasn't buying her stuff...we were just cruisin' around that mall. We were bored, so we just went out to that mall. Her younger sister came along as well. The only thing I remember buying her was a caramel candy apple.

I don't buy my love. I'm hella poor, but sometimes, I buy my ex-girlfriend things that she really wants. And, these things are not really expensive gifts. Like a pair of shoes, some clothes, and stuff like that. She likes to shop at Express and Forever 21, so I get her stuff from there.

As, you can see from my profile, I've spent a huge sum of money modding my car. I just want her to feel that I am NOT obsessed over my car only that I still care to get her small things from time to time.

Let me remind you, we have been dating over 4 years. Our 4 Year Anniversary was when I bought her that diamond ring. I guess I wasn't enough for her. You be the judge after seeing who she is dating right now.

purpled_out_tC

Well I'd say you made out in the deal. You got rid of her before you got too deep, graned 4 years in a long time, but it could been worst. Your gf is better looking than your ex and you got rid of her. She really did do you a favor, she showed you her materialistic side BeFORE you guys got married. I know all of us can say get over her, but I know it's not that easy. Stick to focusing on yourself and people/things that you love and you'll be fine.

TongMan

Heart break is the worst feeling that any person will have to deal with. To anyone who had ever gone through heart break, I feel your pain. Although she cheated on me, part of me still wanna be with her! I don't know why!! It's just that we've been together for so long; we've done almost everything together and now all of a sudden, there is this hole in me. Part of myself is missing!

Many people who I've talked with had told me to just let go and move on! I tried, but it's really not as easy as when people say it.

tc-guy

damn tong, sorry to hear man. ur better off without someone like that anyway. just let her keep it man, its not worth talkin to that biotch again. if i didn't have my kid i wouldn't talk to my ex ever again. u got someone better now so just rub ur ex's nose in that next time u see her!

TongMan

It seems to help when I go to the gym and work out. It takes me away from all the problems that I've been having. I've been out of being in shape for so long...I'm just finding things to make me forget about my past 4 years with her. It's so hard!!

If anyone could help me get through this by sharing your experiences, it would help me out a lot! What did you do to forget about her?

tC4italy

Well if you are serious about that last comment I can PM you with my share. I'm not gonna put it in the open. And yeah it was a he I had to forget about but it's the same.

TongMan

sure...pm me!