RIP My good friend, Danny
09-11-2009 | 05:05 AM
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Balliztik
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From: Washington
Sorry to hear this news Andrew........
It is a horrendous and angry thing for a person to take their life and his pain at the time must of been so much more than he could bear any longer.....
I lost my Brother in Law last year the same way and my wife has never really been the same since then......then this year the PNW lost Corina(iluvmytc) in the same fashion..........and many of us here are still broken in some way over it.....
Please see about talking to a counselor about how this is making you feel right now.....you are going to go through many emotions,some may not come for years but they will come and you will need the best tools to be able to deal with them......
We are all here for you buddy...........I know your pain right now all too well......my best friend stopped me from suicide 15 years ago,I saw no future,no way out of my hell I was in......today life has had many ups and downs over the years but I am greatful to have had that friend take the time to listen and help me through my pain.......
After nearly two years my wife has finally started counseling to deal with her feelings of her brothers death.......we are separated at this moment but are working hard on each our own issues......
take care.......Brian
It is a horrendous and angry thing for a person to take their life and his pain at the time must of been so much more than he could bear any longer.....
I lost my Brother in Law last year the same way and my wife has never really been the same since then......then this year the PNW lost Corina(iluvmytc) in the same fashion..........and many of us here are still broken in some way over it.....
Please see about talking to a counselor about how this is making you feel right now.....you are going to go through many emotions,some may not come for years but they will come and you will need the best tools to be able to deal with them......
We are all here for you buddy...........I know your pain right now all too well......my best friend stopped me from suicide 15 years ago,I saw no future,no way out of my hell I was in......today life has had many ups and downs over the years but I am greatful to have had that friend take the time to listen and help me through my pain.......
After nearly two years my wife has finally started counseling to deal with her feelings of her brothers death.......we are separated at this moment but are working hard on each our own issues......
take care.......Brian
09-11-2009 | 05:45 AM
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Balliztik
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Corina took her life in what seems like early June.......her mom and step dad came up here from Cali and we had a memorial drive to a spot she used to go fishing at all the time to spread her ashes........her mom was able to get the car paid for and was able to drive it on the cruise.......several of Corina's close friends did a complete detail of the car the night before the memorial cruise for her mom,think i spent 2 hours polishing the paint that night......
Corina's car is in Socal right now,so if you see a Flint mica tC in Socal repping Balliztik that is Corina's car.......
Corina's car is in Socal right now,so if you see a Flint mica tC in Socal repping Balliztik that is Corina's car.......
09-11-2009 | 06:07 AM
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Scikotics
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From: Minneapolis, MN
Sorry to hear it man. I have had 5 people I know do the same over the past 6-7 years or so. So I know its hard to deal with someone going that way. It is scary that so many are choosing this path lately.
09-11-2009 | 06:36 AM
#28
im with you on this one man, i had a friend do the same thing a couple years back.
i dont know the circumstances of your friends situation but sometimes its better for people to live on spiritually and not physically.
my friends was struggling very badly with depression so we all know that he is in a better place now and can rest.
if you need to talk about anything hit me up on AIM.
i dont know the circumstances of your friends situation but sometimes its better for people to live on spiritually and not physically.
my friends was struggling very badly with depression so we all know that he is in a better place now and can rest.
if you need to talk about anything hit me up on AIM.
09-12-2009 | 06:23 AM
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09-12-2009 | 06:41 AM
#33
as sad and hard as it is, it does bring all the friends closer together and makes every appreciate life much more.
like i said, depression is a nasty thing, some people are better off moving on then living and suffering from it.
its pretty hard for us "normal" people to understand but i can imagine how hard it would be.
again, let me know if you need anything bro.
09-14-2009 | 08:02 AM
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Im sorry to hear about it also... ive been through some crappy times too, but i always knew my troubles were nothing compared to some. Never take your life or happiness for granted. Sometimes life sucks, and the only person to know if its right or not to make that move is the person themselves.
Now this is the first time ive heard about Corina.. and im completely heartbroken. We didn't talk much, but I did talk to her.. she helped me out with searching for some stuff and was so polite...... just wow. I talked to her not long before she stopped posting and I never knew why she stopped... now i know
RIP.. both of them
Now this is the first time ive heard about Corina.. and im completely heartbroken. We didn't talk much, but I did talk to her.. she helped me out with searching for some stuff and was so polite...... just wow. I talked to her not long before she stopped posting and I never knew why she stopped... now i know
RIP.. both of them
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